Discussion about this post

User's avatar
Rebel2Tyrants's avatar

I've often thought about that without realizing that I was thinking about that. Many times, I've made decisions that I thought were best for my family, wife and children, that I wouldn't necessarily have made for myself. I've not taken risks I might have otherwise taken. I've tried to minimize the risk to our finances, our health (emotional and physical), as well as even mitigated against risk to our comfort level.

I think that many men would even try to preserve their own lives if they believed that the loss of it would have devastating effects on their family.

Having a family certainly changes what a man might think about his "price".

Expand full comment
TAM's avatar

In Shusaku Endo's novel "Silence" there is a scene where one of the missionaries is imprisoned by the Japanese. From his cell he hears sounds coming from outside which keep him awake at night. When he complains about it to his captors, they take him to where the noise is coming from. What he has been hearing are the groans of Japanese Christians who are being tortured (he has not been). He is told that if he wants to stop their suffering, he needs to renounce Christ. What should he do? What is his price? Which is more important, his faith (and his eternal fate) or easing the suffering of others? It is truly a diabolical choice that his jailers have presented him with.

Expand full comment
28 more comments...

No posts